You know, I've heard women make this statement many times; especially in situations that involve "Baby Mama Drama". New wife/ girlfriend get's tired of her man jumping and running everytime his "Baby Mama" calls - "Baby Mama" manipulates "Baby Daddy" just because she can, etcetera, etcetera..we've heard it all before.
What's really sad about the statement above is, it's been used by many women who have been in a serious relationship with a Mama's Boy and not just any kind of Mama's Boy! It's usually the MB who was raised by a single mother and she remains single after he's grown.
What's really troubling about this statement is that far too often we (women) find it necessary to remind our MB's of this very thing. Something that we believe they should already know. I think in many ways they really don't know and/or they just don't get it.
It's such a sensitive and twisted topic.
If you've ever had to tell your Mama's Boy that he is not his mother's man/husband, please share!
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Lov e the blog. Yes, many times single mothers use the excuse that they are single to manipulate their son's into taking care of them. But us wives have to cut that in the bud.
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Girl you must have read my mind...and your husband and mine must have the same mama! Does she try to take trips with him and stuff? Mine had the nerve to fix his lips to tell me that his mother wants to take him on a cruise! WHAT???? I told him to repeat that outloud a couple of times to see if that sounded like something he should be telling me! If he was single I still wouldnt understand but because he has a wife (and a good one I might add) she just crossed a line!
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OMG!!! OMGG!!!!
ReplyDeleteI told my husband to pack his things and move in with his mother! I AM SO TIRED OF IT! The crazy thing about their relationship is she was a horrible mother to him when he was young and he ALWAYS has an excuse why she treated him poorly. She OVERCOMPENSATES for his childhood and he eats it up. I guess the grown man has reverted back to the child who wants his mommy but either he gets some counseling or he's gonna have to get out. I am not going to play second fiddle to her and she is not going to have control over my marriage!
Pamela Ellis-Reese
Bronx, NY
Well the bitch has been diagnosis with cancer and is dying...yet even on her death bed she manipulates him and his brother to pay her bills, "because I can no longer work"...she get early retirement and SSI. The poor me syndrome. So sick of them BOTH! He just went to NY from TN to visit with her. It's been 4 days since he left and he haven't picked up the phone to call me and his three kids (14 yrs and 7 year old twins) not once! I text-ed him today.....his response: "my mother is sick and not eating, I'm laying next to her rubbing her stomach and drifted off to sleep. So quit texting me negative stuff". The "negative stuff... is asking why he does'nt even check on the kids while I'm at work. I still gotta work with you gone! REALLY?
ReplyDeleteCan it get anymore twisted than this? Even when the with was well...she would call his phone 30 TIMES A DAY!! Yes...30 TIMES!! Kid you not! And when she can't get through to him, that's the onliest time she will call the house phone. Never to "talk" to her grand kids mind you...for him!! I"m so out of here. Bags are packed, the house is on the market! This is beyond ridiculous!! Narcissistic bitch!
Even when the with was well..... should have read in the above"even when the WITCH was well...
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