She did what???

"She rearranged my kitchen while I was in the hospital and threw away an old pillow case that belonged to my mom."


A very good friend of mine just came home after 8 days in the hospital. She was heavily sedated during her stay but can remember her husband dropping by with his mother to visit. She doesn't remember having any discussions about her home, her clothing, food or dirty laundry but when she arrived home she found that her kitchen cabinets were re-arranged, her clothing had been moved around in her closets and not only was her laundry cleaned but a few items that she kept for sentimental reasons was no where to be found.


When I spoke to her, I heard the anger in her voice and I tried to calm her down. Her husband overheard our telephone conversation and I could hear him tell her:
"She was just trying to help".

I just knew he would be the next one admitted but as it turns out, my friend wound up in the ER!

You are NOT her man!

You know, I've heard women make this statement many times; especially in situations that involve "Baby Mama Drama". New wife/ girlfriend get's tired of her man jumping and running everytime his "Baby Mama" calls - "Baby Mama" manipulates "Baby Daddy" just because she can, etcetera, etcetera..we've heard it all before.

What's really sad about the statement above is, it's been used by many women who have been in a serious relationship with a Mama's Boy and not just any kind of Mama's Boy! It's usually the MB who was raised by a single mother and she remains single after he's grown.

What's really troubling about this statement is that far too often we (women) find it necessary to remind our MB's of this very thing. Something that we believe they should already know. I think in many ways they really don't know and/or they just don't get it.

It's such a sensitive and twisted topic.

If you've ever had to tell your Mama's Boy that he is not his mother's man/husband, please share!